I posted to the comm as well. I had a blind panic attack because my dining-room table is covered with 'makings', I just had a fruitless shopping expedition for a particular kind of fixing, and the idea of being considered uninterested was some kind of last straw! Panic over. It's still 23rd here, too... But then I'm hopeless at dates. And putting things on the calendar is fine provided I remember to look at the calendar.